Kristen Thomas Photography » Northern Virginia Portrait & Wedding Photographer

The night before their wedding, friends were preparing all over the house.  A group of girls in the living room tying bouquets of roses, and men cooking in the kitchen.  When I walked in around 11:00 pm, there was still a lot to do and a slight sense of chaos all over the house. Lynn was sitting in the recliner, wedding dress draped over her lap and I could see she was upset.  Something was not going as planned…

She explained that she specifically bought a simple dress since the seamstress promised she would sew on elegant pearls to dress it up.  When the dress was altered and returned that day, no pearls had been placed on the dress.  I sat in the chair beside her as we brainstormed all the options.  I grabbed the pearls off the table, “You take one end, I’ll take the other, this will be easy!” And we started hand-sewing tiny pearls on the dress….   One by one, everyone else finished their task and left.  We talked and laughed and shared what God was doing in our lives… and we finally finished…. at 7:00 am!  I can’t say it was my brightest idea for the bride and the photographer to get absolutely no sleep before the wedding, but it was a fun night.

I could talk about many more stories from their wedding;  the handmade bridesmaids dresses arriving hours late and still having to tuck and pin each of them for lack of fit, how the groom entertained the guests in the frigid cold (the wedding started two hours late in waiting for the dresses), the sweet flower girl sick with the stomach flu, food not arriving on time, etc, etc, etc.

But beyond all the chaos and little things that seemed to go wrong, the only thing that mattered that day is that the man of her dreams was waiting for her at the end of the aisle.  The man she had prayed for to take care of her and love her forever…

Lynn and Joe are special to me since they were one of my first weddings.  It was the beginning of a deep friendship and I’m so thankful to have been there for their wedding and each of their babies (#4 is on the way!)  They have become a huge source of encouragement in my own life and their marriage has been a great example to me as I was waiting and praying for my own groom.  I’m so happy for all that God is doing in their lives, marriage and growing family.  Here are some of my favorites from their forever day….   Happy Anniversary Joe and Lynn! Love you!

I woke up on July 17 with a very calming, peaceful feeling. The day had arrived, and I was about to marry the man God had prepared just for me.  While I was getting ready, family and friends were at the vineyard setting up chairs and hanging tiny light bulb vases.  Everything was going as planned…

Then the dark clouds rolled in and I started to worry…  just a little.  We were planning for an outside ceremony at Barren Ridge Vineyards, and while we could move everything inside, we really dreamed of saying our vows outside in the gorgeous setting we had envisioned.

As I put on my jewelry and Stephanie made last minute dress alterations… it began to rain.  Not a slight drizzle, but it started to pour…  We proceeded to take some pictures of me and my bridesmaids on my parents front porch and hoped for the best.

As I rode with Dave and Patrick to the vineyards the rain had stopped, but we weren’t in the clear yet.  It was supposed to storm again at 4:00 pm, our ceremony time.  Everyone kept assuring me, “It’s good luck to have rain on your wedding day!” Why???  Was this just a phrase to somehow calm those brides who’s dreams of outside weddings had been ruined?  Who would think such a thing was good luck?  After the wedding, I learned that since the wedding day is “tying the knot,” rain is considered good luck since a wet knot is harder to untie….

We arrived at the vineyard for the First Look. (I’ll feature more about the reasons for choosing a First Look in another post, but it allowed us to see each other before the wedding and take many pictures ahead of time.  Definitely recommend it!)   John was standing at the top of the hill.  As I walked up the long gravel road to meet him, it was amazing to think about how often I had prayed for my husband.  Wondered what he would be like and what his name would be.  His name is John, and he was waiting for me, his bride.  The moments of first seeing each other were priceless.

After lots of pictures, the ceremony was about to begin.  Not a rain cloud in sight! God is so good and gave us an amazingly beautiful sunny ceremony.  And after vows, rings, unity sand and a kiss, we were pronounced husband and wife at exactly 4:17 pm on July 17th!

Today marks three months married for us, and 29 years for my parents!  Happy Anniversary!


We have to give thanks to our amazing vendors…

Venue: Barren Ridge Vineyards – The setting was spectacular, and their coordinator, Melinda, was so helpful in working with us to make sure the day coordinated beautifully.

Wedding Director: Nicole Riley – Best director ever! Seriously cannot thank her enough for all her hard work.  She flawlessly coordinated a large wedding party (16 adults + 2 flower girls!) and handled lots of things behind-the-scenes that I didn’t even find out about until afterwards.  So, thank you Nicole for cleaning up glass when the lightbulbs broke, wiping off wet chairs from the rain, attempting to redirect a random limousine from interrupting our ceremony and simply being fabulous!  I’ll recommend you to anyone!

Photographers: After we got engaged, I was frequently asked, “So, who’s going to do your photography?”  I really didn’t have to put a whole lot of thought into this question.  I’ve had the amazing opportunity to work with lots of great photographers over the years, but I knew who I wanted to capture my special day.  Two of the most fabulous photographers I know, David Madison of David Madison Photography and Sabrena Deal of S. Carter Studios.  Yeah, I couldn’t pick just one…

Videographer: Patrick Ryan – Dear friend and “big brother” for almost 10 years, I was so thankful he was willing to use his talents to capture our day.  I can’t wait to see the final result, I know it will be wonderful!

Flowers: Waynesboro Florist – We had visited several florists in town, and Webber impressed us from the first visit to the shop.  He listened to our ideas and had wonderful advice for how we could implement them.  He was knowledgeable about the different flowers and even ordered a sample for me to see a few weeks before to make sure the colors were what we liked.  We were thrilled with what he created for us!

Caterer: Willie McNeal of Weddings & Things – Our food was amazing! His servers were professional and kind, they served the meals quickly and everything was hot and sooo good!

Cake: Orpha Beyeler – She had created the cake for my sister’s wedding, so I knew I had to have her for my own.  She seriously makes the best tasting and most elegant cakes we have ever seen.  We were so pleased!

Groom’s Cake & Maid of Honor Extraordinaire: Megan Tomlinson – I know you put in a lot of hours even before you arrived into town.  Your cake was spectacular, and I appreciate all your hard work with the decorating, setting up (for the rehearsal dinner and wedding) and preparing everything that needed to be done for the day.

Program Design: Paul Tomlinson of Waxed Designs – He was able to take the embossed design from our invitations and embed it into our program.  Very talented designer and patient brother-in-law!

Music: Stan Wood – Thank you so much for providing our wonderful music.  You did a great job and we are so thankful for your work!

My Parents: I know you’re not technically “vendors” but you both provided so much for this day.  I appreciate all the hours of helping me string beads, hollow out light bulb vases, paint wooden letters, hand emboss invitations and each place card, set up and tear down, hard work for our day.  Everything was so worth it… we love and appreciate every detail! Thanks for listening to all my crazy ideas, calming me down during stressful moments and being the best parents a girl could ask for.  I know you’ve been praying for me to find this special man, for what seems like forever, and I’m so grateful for your years of prayers, worry and support.  Love you so much!

  • October 17, 2010 - 7:54 pm

    DADDY & Mom - Very touching and just beautiful! Daddy thinks you need to go into writing – you journal things very well. We are so thankful God brought John into your life in His perfect timing. It was a perfect and beautiful day – and the start to a beautiful life together. And Baba would be so happy that you married a John!!
    We love you,
    Mom and DaddyReplyCancel

It was one year ago today that I stood in front of my mirror and put on lip gloss one last time. One year ago that my roommates approved my outfit, I grabbed my purse, got into my green ’95 Acura and headed down the road to meet the man I would someday marry.

And to be honest, I was cautiously optimistic.

Because this person I was meeting, this random stranger I was about to go have dinner with… yeah, I met him on eHarmony.  That’s right. Internet dating. And while I had gone on a few of these first dates before, this one felt a little different, like I was doing something I was always meant to do.

I arrived at Not your Average Joe’s and saw John waiting there for me.  Wow, he is handsome! We greeted, were escorted to our table and sat down for a rather long dinner.  Conversation was easy, like talking to an old friend.  It was so cute how nervous he was, and how his ears went up when he smiled.  I was dreading the end, when he would probably say he needed to go and that would be the last I would see of him.  But at the end of dinner, he asked, “So, what’s next?” So we drove towards the Corn Maze in Leesburg…  it was closed because of rain and mud.  So we decided to go bowling and after three games, again he said, “So…  what should we do next?” This went on for a few more hours, trying to find things in the area to do so we wouldn’t have to say goodnight.  And after our seven hour date, I was definitely optimistic.  I couldn’t wait to get to know him more, cause he was a keeper!

Our courtship was quick (when you know, you know!), and we spent a lot of gas money making the 45 min drive to see each other, almost every day.  And after five months of holidays,  sweet hugs, and sunset picnics, we were engaged.  Five months after that… our wedding day!

Happy 1 year Date-iversary, honey!  I love you more and more each day!


  • October 16, 2010 - 5:03 pm

    Ashley - Totally awesome! 🙂ReplyCancel

  • October 17, 2010 - 12:30 am

    DADDY - Congrats you two! A wonderful Love story indeed. 29 years today for your Mother and I, glad you Kristen Marie was a part of our Love story! Love you DadReplyCancel

Only two weeks ago, precious Catelyn Alexandra entered the world.  I had the pleasure of meeting her yesterday, and she is such a calm and sweet baby. Gavin is already proving to be a great big brother.  He would run off and play and keep coming back in to check on what we were doing, very curious about his little sister.  More to come in a few weeks with the whole family, but for now, enjoy the portraits of adorable Catelyn!

Sunday’s weather was absolutely gorgeous.  It was supposed to rain in the evening, and I loved the stunning dark clouds with bright sun rays shining through.  I’m hoping to attempt apple butter this year so we headed to a local orchard after church to gather our bag of Nittany’s….  Thanks Pastor Jim for taking the pictures of me and John!